"College isn't just about textbooks and exams; it's about the experiences that shape you."
I remember when I first stepped onto campus. It felt huge. Intimidating, even. But I also felt this tiny spark of excitement, like I was standing on the edge of something big. It was move-in day, and the campus was buzzing with activity – students lugging boxes, parents trying not to cry, and upperclassmen handing out flyers for every club imaginable. Honestly, I almost ran back to the car.
students arriving on college campus move-in day | Image: Supplied
I'm not naturally a joiner, you know? I tend to be the quiet observer, the one who prefers a good book to a crowded room. So, the idea of going to a college event, let alone multiple, was kind of terrifying. Picture it: me, awkwardly standing in the corner, nursing a lukewarm drink, and praying for the ground to swallow me whole. Yeah, no thanks.
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But then, my roommate dragged me (literally) to a welcome-back concert. It was outdoors, the band was surprisingly good, and... wait for it... people were actually smiling. Like, genuinely happy. Something about the energy, the shared excitement, made me forget my usual anxieties. I even danced a little! (Okay, maybe it was more of a shuffle, but still.) That concert was a turning point. It opened my eyes to the fact that college events weren't just about forced fun; they could be genuinely enjoyable.
students enjoying an outdoor concert on college campus | Image: Supplied
Since then, I've made it a point to attend as many events as possible. And I've discovered that there's so much more to college events than just parties (although, let's be real, the themed parties are a blast). I've gone to lectures by inspiring professors, workshops on everything from coding to creative writing, and even a stargazing night on the quad. Each event has offered something new, a chance to learn, grow, and connect with people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Once, I found myself accidentally attending a pottery class and I haven't had that much fun in years.
students attending a stargazing event on college campus | Image: Supplied
One of the biggest benefits of attending college events is the sense of community they foster. College can feel isolating at times, especially if you're far from home. But events provide a space where you can meet like-minded people, bond over shared interests, and form lasting friendships. It’s like, suddenly, you're not alone anymore. You're part of something bigger. At our school, we have this little coffee shop that hosts open mic nights, and I've met some of my closest friends there listening to original songs and poetry.
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Attending college events has also pushed me to step outside my comfort zone. I've tried things I never would have considered before, like joining the debate club (public speaking? yikes!) and volunteering at a local animal shelter. These experiences have not only broadened my horizons but have also helped me discover new passions and interests. Plus, they look great on a resume, just sayin'. My friend even decided to join a salsa dancing club, which is something I never would have expected from him! College is all about trying new things, so embrace the opportunities.
college student participating in a debate club meeting | Image: Supplied
But perhaps the most significant reason I love attending college events is the memories they create. These are the moments I'll look back on years from now and smile. The late-night study sessions fueled by pizza and caffeine, the impromptu dance parties in the dorm, the feeling of triumph after winning a campus-wide scavenger hunt. These are the experiences that make college, well, college. Don't let fear hold you back. Go to the next event! Who knows what amazing memories you'll make?
group of college students laughing and taking selfies at a campus event | Image: Supplied
So, to all the incoming freshmen out there, feeling overwhelmed and a little scared: I get it. But I urge you to push past those feelings and embrace the college experience, the fun, the friendships, the memories. You won't regret it. And maybe, just maybe, I'll see you at the next campus event! What does this mean for you? Your college life is waiting.
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