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why i think skipping orientation is a huge mistake

By Olivia Hayes

Published: 20 May 2025

“The beginning is always the hardest part. Trust me, I know. But showing up? That’s half the battle. Orientation is your first step.”

Why I Think Skipping Orientation Is a Huge Mistake

Okay, let me tell you a little something about myself. I’m the kinda person who used to think I could wing everything. College orientation? Psh, waste of time, right? Wrong. So, so wrong. I skipped mine, and honestly? It's one of my biggest college regrets. It felt like I was thrown into the deep end without knowing how to swim. And let me tell you, nearly drowning academically and socially? Not a cute look.

So, you might be thinking, "Olivia, you dramatic!" But hear me out. There’s a reason why these orientations exist, and they're way more valuable than you think. This is coming from someone who learned the hard way.

student arriving at university campus

student arriving at university campus | Image: Supplied

Making Connections: It's Not Just About Academics

College isn’t just about hitting the books (though, yeah, that’s a big part). It’s about forging connections, finding your tribe, and building a support system. Orientation is prime time for this. I remember wandering around campus during my first week, feeling totally lost and alone. Everyone else seemed to have already formed their little cliques. It felt awful.

At orientation, everyone’s in the same boat – nervous, excited, and trying to figure things out. It’s a low-pressure environment to meet people who share your interests, who might be in your classes, or who could just become your lifelong friends. Seriously, skipping it means missing out on a golden opportunity to start building those crucial relationships. So, don’t make the same mistake I did – dive in headfirst and meet some awesome people!

students laughing and talking at orientation

students laughing and talking at orientation | Image: Supplied

Let’s talk about the practical stuff. College campuses can be HUGE and confusing. I spent half my first semester wandering around trying to find my classes, the library (which, FYI, is a life-saver), and even just the freaking cafeteria. Orientation usually includes campus tours, info sessions about important resources, and guides to navigating the academic system. This stuff is gold, people.

I remember showing up to my first chemistry lab 15 minutes late because I got lost. Not a great first impression. Don’t be like me. Take the tour, grab the maps, and ask all the questions. Trust me, you'll thank yourself later.

student looking at campus map with confusion

student looking at campus map with confusion | Image: Supplied

Unlocking the Secrets: Resources You Didn't Know Existed

Colleges offer a TON of resources that can help you succeed, but most students don’t even know they exist. Things like tutoring services, writing centers, career counseling, mental health support – the list goes on. Orientation is where you learn about all these hidden gems.

I wish I’d known about the writing center sooner. I struggled with essays my entire first year, thinking I was just a terrible writer. Turns out, I just needed a little guidance. Don’t underestimate the power of these resources. They’re there to help you thrive!

students working together at a university writing center

students working together at a university writing center | Image: Supplied

Getting a Head Start: Academics and Beyond

Orientation often includes workshops and sessions designed to prepare you for the academic rigor of college. You might learn about effective study habits, time management skills, or how to navigate online learning platforms. These skills are essential for success, and getting a head start can make a huge difference.

I remember struggling to keep up with the workload during my first few weeks. If I had attended orientation, I would have learned some valuable time management techniques that would have saved me a lot of stress and late nights. Seriously, give yourself the advantage – it's worth it.

students studying in a library with laptops and books

students studying in a library with laptops and books | Image: Supplied

Making Informed Decisions: Choosing the Right Path

College is a time for exploration and discovery. Orientation gives you the opportunity to learn about different majors, programs, and extracurricular activities. It’s a chance to explore your interests and make informed decisions about your academic and career path. I switched my major three times before finally figuring out what I wanted to do. If I had attended orientation, I might have discovered my passion sooner.

Don’t be afraid to try new things and step outside your comfort zone. Orientation can help you discover opportunities you never even knew existed. Like Quidditch. Yes, that's actually a thing on some campuses.

students at a college fair exploring different majors

students at a college fair exploring different majors | Image: Supplied

Addressing Concerns: Getting Your Questions Answered

Orientation is the perfect time to ask all those burning questions you have about college life. Whether it’s about financial aid, housing, or academic policies, there will be people there to provide you with answers and guidance. I had so many questions swirling around in my head before starting college, but I didn’t know who to ask. I wish I had taken advantage of the opportunity to get those questions answered during orientation.

Don’t be shy – ask away! It’s better to be informed than to be confused and overwhelmed.

students asking questions at an orientation session

students asking questions at an orientation session | Image: Supplied

So, yeah. Skipping orientation? Big mistake. Huge. I get it, it might seem boring or unnecessary. But trust me, it’s an investment in your future success and happiness. Don’t be like me and learn the hard way. Embrace the opportunity, make the most of it, and set yourself up for an amazing college experience.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm off to go cry about all the free pizza I missed.

happy and successful college student graduating

happy and successful college student graduating | Image: Supplied

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” – Zig Ziglar

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