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the surprising self care secret that doctors don't tell you

By Dr. Evelyn Reed

Published: 02 May 2025

The Day My Doctor Blew My Mind

Let's be honest, doctor's appointments aren't exactly known for their thrilling narratives. But one recent visit changed everything. I was there for a routine checkup, feeling pretty good about myself – good diet, regular exercise, the whole shebang. Then my doctor dropped a bombshell: 'Evelyn,' she said, leaning forward, 'you're neglecting the most vital aspect of self-care.' I stared, blank. 'Sleep,' she clarified, her tone both gentle and firm. 'You're sleep-deprived, and it's impacting your health more than you realize.' Boom. My carefully constructed self-care routine, built on kale smoothies and Pilates, was apparently missing a crucial ingredient: sufficient sleep. I was floored.

That conversation completely shifted my perspective. It made me realize how often we prioritize the visible markers of wellness – the trendy workouts, the organic meals – while overlooking something as fundamental and impactful as sleep. And this, my friends, is the surprising self-care secret doctors often forget to emphasize (or we forget to truly listen to!).

A woman looking surprised at a doctor during a check-up

A woman looking surprised at a doctor during a check-up | Image: Supplied

Beyond the Beauty Sleep Myth: Why Sleep is Actually Self-Care

We've all heard about 'beauty sleep.' But let's move past the superficial. The science behind the importance of sleep is far more profound than just preventing puffy eyes. When you sleep, your body goes into repair mode. Your cells regenerate, hormones regulate, and your brain consolidates memories. Chronic sleep deprivation wreaks havoc: it impacts your immune system, making you more susceptible to illness; it increases your risk of chronic diseases; it affects your mood, energy levels, and cognitive function. In short, not getting enough sleep is a recipe for disaster – physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Think about it: how many times have you tried to conquer a challenging task or navigate a stressful situation while utterly exhausted? The answer, for most of us, is probably more often than we'd like to admit. Getting enough sleep can not only improve your physical health, it can completely transform your daily experiences and ability to thrive.

Brain image showing neuron activity during sleep

Brain image showing neuron activity during sleep | Image: Supplied

So, How Much Sleep Is Enough?

The elusive ‘eight hours of sleep’ is often touted, but honestly, the ideal amount varies from person to person. However, most adults need at least seven hours to function optimally. Listen to your body! If you're constantly tired, even after a full night's rest, it's time to investigate. This could be a sign of an underlying issue that needs professional attention. It's also important to consider your sleep quality: Are you waking up frequently during the night? Do you feel rested when you do wake up? If not, you might need to experiment with various sleep hygiene practices to improve your sleep quality.

Practical Steps to Prioritize Sleep:

Here's the thing: making sleep a priority isn't just about hitting the hay earlier. It's about creating a sleep sanctuary. Here are some actionable steps you can take:

  • Establish a regular sleep schedule: Go to bed and wake up around the same time each day, even on weekends, to regulate your body's natural sleep-wake cycle.
  • Create a relaxing bedtime routine: Unwind before bed with a calming activity like reading, taking a warm bath, or listening to soothing music. Avoid screens at least an hour before bedtime.
  • Optimize your sleep environment: Make sure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and cool. Invest in a comfortable mattress and pillows.
  • Get regular exercise: But avoid intense workouts close to bedtime.
  • Watch your caffeine and alcohol intake: Limit these substances, especially later in the day.
  • Consider a sleep aid: If you're struggling to fall asleep or stay asleep, talk to your doctor about potential sleep aids, such as melatonin or cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I).
Woman meditating before going to bed

Woman meditating before going to bed | Image: Supplied

Beyond the Basics: The Holistic Approach

Prioritizing sleep is an act of radical self-care, and it's so much more than just about sleep itself. It’s about integrating sleep into your overall lifestyle— a holistic approach to well-being. Think of this as a ripple effect: getting enough sleep not only improves your physical and mental health but also boosts your productivity, emotional intelligence, and your overall quality of life. When you're well-rested, you're more likely to make healthier choices in other areas of your life, too. This includes better meal choices, better exercise choices, improved relationships, and enhanced creativity and job performance. All because you’ve prioritised getting your beauty sleep – but the beauty part is just the beginning!

Woman looking happy and healthy, outdoors in the sun

Woman looking happy and healthy, outdoors in the sun | Image: Supplied

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