Best sex toys
10 must have sex toys for every bedroom (updated march 19 2025)
By Dr. Vivian Holloway
Published: 19 Mar 2025
Foreplay is Key, People!
Let's be honest, sometimes the lead-up to the main event is even better than the event itself. And that's where some of these toys can really shine. Think of them as your secret weapons for amping up the anticipation and setting the mood. I mean, who needs a fancy candlelit dinner when you've got a silky smooth massager? 😉
Variety is the Spice of Life (and the Bedroom!)
Just like your favorite restaurant menu, a well-stocked bedroom needs options! Different toys cater to different moods, desires, and, well...parts. Some are for solo play, some are designed for couples, and some are...well, let's just say they're best left to your imagination (until you try them!). Don't be afraid to experiment. It's all part of the fun!
Pleasure Shouldn't Hurt (Seriously!)
Listen, I'm all about pushing boundaries and exploring new sensations, but that doesn't mean you should be in pain. Ever. If something hurts, stop! It should feel good, amazing, even mind-blowing. There are tons of toys out there made with comfort in mind, so choose wisely. And don't forget to check out reviews before you buy!
person comfortably using a sex toy | Image: Supplied
Communication is HOT
This might sound cheesy, but talking to your partner about what you like and don't like is crucial, even more important than the toys themselves. Trust me on this. Open communication creates a safe space to explore and experiment. It also ensures that both of you are having the most amazing experience possible. No awkward silences or guessing games here. 😉
Cleaning is Crucial (Don't Skip This Step!)
Okay, so this isn't the most glamorous part, but it's essential. Proper cleaning is key to preventing infections and keeping your toys in tip-top condition. Use warm water and a toy-specific cleaner—avoid harsh chemicals! Read the instructions carefully and always prioritize hygiene.
The Magic of a Good Vibrator
Okay, let's talk about the GOAT (Greatest Of All Time) of sex toys: the vibrator. Seriously, this little gadget is so versatile; the possibilities are endless. From small and subtle to big and bold, there's a vibrator out there for every preference and every adventure. Experiment with different strengths, patterns, and sizes to find what makes you feel truly alive.
Explore the World of Couples Toys
It’s not just for solo adventures! Many toys are designed to enhance intimacy and connection with a partner. This is where things get really fun. Some options can be surprisingly sensual and bring a new element of excitement to your sex life. Get ready to explore new levels of togetherness and connection. Communication remains key here!
The Allure of Anal Toys
Okay, let's not beat around the bush—anal sex toys have their dedicated following and for a good reason. But please, be gentle and start slow. If you're new to this area, take your time, use plenty of lube, and listen to your body. Many people find anal play to be incredibly pleasurable and fulfilling, but comfort and safety should always be the top priority.
Don't Forget the Lube!
This one is a game changer. Lube isn't just for anal play—it can make almost any sexual encounter more pleasurable. It reduces friction and allows for a smoother, more intense experience. I recommend water-based lubes, as they're safe for most toys and bodies.
Experiment, Explore and Embrace the Journey!
The best part about sex toys is that they are a means of self-discovery and exploration! Don't be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you. Your sex life is a journey, and these toys can add some incredibly exciting chapters along the way. So go ahead, treat yourself, and happy exploring!
