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Best sex positions

top 5 sex positions for couples who want more intense pleasure

By Dr. Emily Carter

Published: 16 Feb 2025

Foreplay: Setting the Mood

Let's be honest, amazing sex starts way before the main event. Think of it like a delicious meal – you wouldn't just shove the entree in your mouth, would you? You'd savor the appetizers, right? The same goes for intimacy. Spend some time connecting – cuddle, whisper sweet nothings, maybe even light some candles (or try a new essential oil blend – lavender and bergamot are my favorites!). This sets the stage for a more fulfilling experience. The best sex isn't just about the physical; it's about emotional connection too. Don't rush it. 😉

couple cuddling on a couch

couple cuddling on a couch | Image: Supplied

The Classic Missionary: Reimagined

Missionary? Sounds kinda boring, right? Wrong! This classic position offers incredible opportunity for connection and control. It's all about how you do it. Experiment with different angles, speeds, and depths. Try adding some kissing or gentle touches. Communication is key here. Talk to your partner. What feels good? What do they like? Don't be afraid to guide them! And remember, slow and steady often wins the race. Remember that time we tried the new Thai food and the slow simmering made the flavors explode?

It's the same principle here.

couple in missionary position

couple in missionary position | Image: Supplied

Cowgirl/Cowboy: Take the Reins

This position puts your partner in control (literally!). It's a fantastic way to explore different rhythms and depths. Plus, the face-to-face contact keeps the connection strong. I've personally found it to be amazing for building intense intimacy. If you find it's going too fast, you can always adjust your pace. My partner and I discovered that slowing things down in the middle made things, well, more enjoyable. It's worth exploring, if you know what I mean. 😉

woman on top during sex

woman on top during sex | Image: Supplied

The Spooning Sensation: Ultimate Intimacy

Spooning isn't just for sleepy cuddles! It’s a wonderfully intimate position that allows for deep connection and gentle exploration. The closeness creates a sense of security and trust, making it perfect for couples who want a more sensual experience. Experiment with different levels of pressure and speeds to find what works for both of you. We experimented with using different pillows and it was pretty amazing. It made a massive difference.

couple spooning in bed

couple spooning in bed | Image: Supplied

Doggy Style: A Different Perspective

This position offers a unique angle and can be incredibly stimulating for both partners. It's all about communication and finding what works best for you both. Try varying the angles and speeds. It's surprisingly versatile and can be super intense. My best advice? Don't be afraid to experiment and find your unique groove. You might discover something that feels really amazing!

couple in doggy style position

couple in doggy style position | Image: Supplied

The most fulfilling sexual experiences are built not on technique alone, but on genuine connection and open communication.

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